He asked you for sex. You were shocked. You hesitate to agree. But you later agree because you don’t want to make him angry. You thought he was a good guy. You thought he will keep all his promises. He saw you fully naked. He did whatever he wanted to do with you. You gave him all your pride and dignity and he was happy.
YOU HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Then he started asking for more. He had sex with you times without number. He suddenly start to act strange! He began to show less care. He began to get mad at you over small things. He began to cheat. He began to use harsh words on you. And he began to see you as a disturbance to him.
YOU KNOW WHY?
Just because you have nothing special to to give him anymore. Just because you have nothing for him to crave anymore! Just because you seem so cheap to him.
Sweetheart, what were you thinking before. Were you expecting him to treat you the same way while you have nothing for him to crave? Were you expecting him to value you while you have proven to be cheap to him? Where you expecting him to stay after he has used you and gotten every exciting part about you? What else would you have to offer? What else would you have to be proud of? He’s gonna move on and start chasing other girls.
He’s gonna move on like he has never had any relationship with you. He is gonna move on unaffected He can’t marry because you are valueless and have nothing to offer so he thought. Stop wondering where things went wrong. It’s straight, things went wrong when you let him had sex with you.
Now you are left with regret, tears, broken heart, disappointments and wonders.
Let me tell you this my dear, most guys are afraid of breaking up with a lady he never had sex with. But once they have that sex, the fear is now “you breaking up with him”.
Sweetheart, it’s far better to break up with him because you refused to have that sex than breaking up with him because you had the sex.
Remember if he truly loves you, he can patiently wait.
Don’t agree even when your parents know him. Don’t agree even if he introduced you to his parents and whole generation.
DON’T AGREE! I REPEAT DON’T AGREE
Some Guys are very good at faking feelings.
I DON’T WANT YOU TO CRY FULL OF REGRET.
And those who have made the mistake “it’s okay” don’t let it happen again!
NEVER EVER TRUST ANY GUY WHEN IT COMES TO SEX.
Not all guys are the same but only few are different. So to be at safer side, ASSUME ALL OF US ARE THE SAME.
Don’t let him turn you to a prostitute because you’re not and never will.
Winnie making impact.
(Relationship educator ||Writer ||Author)
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